Love Under the Moon: Sibling Rivalry

Well hello there Hive! I apologize for my absence last week. As I'm sure many of you heard, Hurricane Sandy really threw us for a loop down here in Westchester County. Mr. Coyote and I are (thankfully) safe and sound and counting our blessings, but we were unfortunately out of work and out of Internet for the entire week. Everything is now running as smoothly as it can be after a disaster such as this so, in an attempt to return to a normal life, I am back to finishing up my recaps!

Today's post is going to be a little bit different than all of my other recap posts. That's because this particular entry is not really a recap, but a story and a group of photos that I felt really needed to be shared with the world. This is a story about Mrs. Coyote and her little brother.

(Personal photo)

My brother and I have a very interesting relationship. We're not just siblings... We're best buds. And when we're together we are a serious force to be reckoned with. Some of our favorites past times include harassing our mother, stalking each other on Facebook,

(Images via Facebook. Names and photos edited by me.)

And ruining what would otherwise be lovely photos.

(Personal photos)

Oh and I forgot one more thing. We LOVE to dance. And although most of our other family members also love to dance no one gets up on that dance floor faster than my brother and me. Since Mr. Coyote is not much a dancer he is just happy that his wife has a guaranteed dance partner at all family functions while he sits at the table and eats his cake. It's really a win-win-win situation.

Our wedding was no exception. Little Bro Coyote and I tore up that dance floor like it was nobody's business.

(All photos following are courtesy of Upstate Photographers)

Oh and that boutonniere in my hand? Yea, that belonged to Little Bro Coyote. He didn't pin it to his jacket quite right so all day long he was fiddling with it. And fiddling with it. And fiddling with it. I even tried to help him while we were taking our formal family portraits, but it was a lost cause.

Every once in a while he would stop dancing to fidget with his bout. Eventually I became so fed up with him and his stupid boutonniere that I ripped it off his jacket and insisted he keep dancing with me. That seemed to do the trick and we were back in business.

I danced A LOT at our wedding, but some of my favorite memories were definitely getting my groove on with my little bro (and stealing his boutonniere!).

Miss a recap?

• I babble about being married and share our wedding video.
• We finish up some last-minute wedding tasks and pre-wedding jitters set in the day before the wedding.
• We practice getting married and then head to our rehearsal dinner where I shed my first tears of the weekend. We later wind down with our families back at the hotel.
• My bridesmaids get pretty and I get a special message from Mr. Coyote.
• I try to cope when things don’t go quite as planned, but thankfully I quickly bounce back and then it was time to become a bride. Meanwhile, Mr. Coyote was calm as a cucumber as he got ready with the dads and groomsmen.
• I finish getting ready and see an unexpected guest on my way to our first look.
• It was finally time to cross the street and meet my groom!
• We spend some time with our wedding party and then some time alone. Ceremony time was rapidly approaching.
• Our ceremony begins with the family and bridesmaid processional and continues with the bridal processional.
• I share the full text of our ceremony.
• We recess and my father gives us a very special wedding gift.
• Our friends and family gathered for some formal (and not so formal) portraits. Then Mr. Coyote and I spent a few moments alone before heading out to join the rest of our guests for our cocktail hour.
• The reception begins with a rockin’ introduction. Followed by our first dance and parent dances.
• Best Man M knocks us all out of the park with his speech. Our maids of honor had a little trouble with their speech, but my uncle brought us back on track with his beautiful blessing.
• We were too excited to eat, so we spent some time visiting with our guests until it was time to cut the cake.
• We dance and have a private photo shoot. Then we get crazy with our photo booth.

Love Under the Moon: The Magnet Man

You may or may not have noticed the giant green screen in the background of some of our photos:

Photo by Upstate Photographers

This was yet another last minute decision that I did not get a chance to blog about before the wedding (good thing for recaps, eh?!). Mr. Coyote and I went back and forth and back and forth on whether or not we should have a photo booth at our wedding. Yes, we had been to weddings that had them, and yes, it was always a blast, but was it really worth the extra money? In the end, Mr. Coyote convinced me that we absolutely had to have one. Honestly, when your groom gets this passionate about something you just gotta let him do it.

Blurry, but hilarious guest photo

If you are on the fence about having a photo booth I am here to tell you that Mr. Coyote is right and you absolutely have to have one! We could not believe how popular it was. In fact, people were lining up to get their photos taken before dinner was even served. It was unbelievable. 

We ended up hiring The Magnet Man. They offer a little bit of a spin off of your traditional photo booth and provide each guest with a multitude of background choices and a magnet of their photo:

Photo by Upstate Photographers

Our fridge is now covered with them and every time we visit our friends or family we love seeing the magnets on their fridge too! As a part of the package we booked we also received every photo on a disc so we could enjoy them over and over again (and so I could share them with you of course!). Mr. Coyote and I spent a good hour howling (cuz y'know, we're coyotes) over these photos so we hope you enjoy them too!

(The following photos are all courtesy of The Magnet Man.)

Why yes, that is my father with Mr. Coyote's father in that bottom photo. What a bunch of troublemakers!

I am 98% sure that my great-uncle did not know what background he was posing for. And I am 99% sure that a few of my crazy cousins wheeled him over and just told him to smile. I can't help cracking up every time I see my great-uncle posing next to a freakin' Playboy bunny!

Oh and just so you don't think we're complete heathens we did take some nice ones too!

That didn't last long though: 

Once again, that is my father in the upper left corner wearing a hot pink wig and chillin' with some Chippendale dudes. (I don't even want to know.)

I was amazed by how many people (young and old!) took advantage of the photo booth and am honestly appalled by my father's behavior on this, the day of his daughter's wedding (just kidding Dad, thanks for all the great material though!).

Are you planning on having a photo booth for your wedding?

 Miss a recap?

• I babble about being married and share our wedding video.
• We finish up some last-minute wedding tasks and pre-wedding jitters set in the day before the wedding.
• We practice getting married and then head to our rehearsal dinner where I shed my first tears of the weekend. We later wind down with our families back at the hotel.
• My bridesmaids get pretty and I get a special message from Mr. Coyote.
• I try to cope when things don’t go quite as planned, but thankfully I quickly bounce back and then it was time to become a bride. Meanwhile, Mr. Coyote was calm as a cucumber as he got ready with the dads and groomsmen.
• I finish getting ready and see an unexpected guest on my way to our first look.
• It was finally time to cross the street and meet my groom!
• We spend some time with our wedding party and then some time alone. Ceremony time was rapidly approaching.
• Our ceremony begins with the family and bridesmaid processional and continues with the bridal processional.
• I share the full text of our ceremony.
• We recess and my father gives us a very special wedding gift.
• Our friends and family gathered for some formal (and not so formal) portraits. Then Mr. Coyote and I spent a few moments alone before heading out to join the rest of our guests for our cocktail hour.
• The reception begins with a rockin’ introduction. Followed by our first dance and parent dances.
• Best Man M knocks us all out of the park with his speech. Our maids of honor had a little trouble with their speech, but my uncle brought us back on track with his beautiful blessing.
• We were too excited to eat, so we spent some time visiting with our guests until it was time to cut the cake.
• We dance and have a private photo shoot.

Love Under the Moon: Just Dance

After all of the formalities were over it was time to move on to the real party. As I mentioned before Mr. Coyote and I wanted a rockin' reception. We were not disappointed and I am seriously amazed by how much time everyone spent on the dance floor.

Things started started out pretty calm:

Because our final guest count ended up smaller than planned, Franklin Plaza set up some high tops near the bar to fill out the space. It was a great spot for guests to grab a drink and watch the party that was unfolding.

At some point cake was served and pastries were brought out. By this time I actually was feeling a bit hungry and yet I didn't even get to taste any of our desserts!

The reason I didn't get to eat any cake? This guy right here:

Nate Miller of Conway Entertainment

I wanted so badly to have a slice of that delicious, delicious cake, but every time I sat down to take a bite a song would come on that I just had to dance to. By the time there was finally a lull in the music all of the plates had been cleared. :( (Not to worry, there was PLENTY of cake leftover and I may have had a few slices for breakfast the next morning. It was fantastic!)

And I have to admit it was worth missing out on a slice of cake to be a part of this:

Right before our photographers left they pulled Mr. Coyote and I aside for a quick photo shoot with Franklin Plaza's amazing bank vault.

I love these photos so much. The ceremony was over, the reception was in full swing and Mr. Coyote and I were just amped up on love and excitement. What a difference from our pre-ceremony photos!

Paul and Brenda had taken all of the footage they needed so they bid us farewell and headed out. But not to worry... The party wasn't over quite yet!

*All photos are by the fabulous Upstate Photographers unless otherwise noted.*

Miss a recap?

• I babble about being married and share our wedding video.
• We finish up some last-minute wedding tasks and pre-wedding jitters set in the day before the wedding.
• We practice getting married and then head to our rehearsal dinner where I shed my first tears of the weekend. We later wind down with our families back at the hotel.
• My bridesmaids get pretty and I get a special message from Mr. Coyote.
• I try to cope when things don’t go quite as planned, but thankfully I quickly bounce back and then it was time to become a bride. Meanwhile, Mr. Coyote was calm as a cucumber as he got ready with the dads and groomsmen.
• I finish getting ready and see an unexpected guest on my way to our first look.
• It was finally time to cross the street and meet my groom!
• We spend some time with our wedding party and then some time alone. Ceremony time was rapidly approaching.
• Our ceremony begins with the family and bridesmaid processional and continues with the bridal processional.
• I share the full text of our ceremony.
• We recess and my father gives us a very special wedding gift.
• Our friends and family gathered for some formal (and not so formal) portraits. Then Mr. Coyote and I spent a few moments alone before heading out to join the rest of our guests for our cocktail hour.
• The reception begins with a rockin’ introduction. Followed by our first dance and parent dances.
• Best Man M knocks us all out of the park with his speech. Our maids of honor had a little trouble with their speech, but my uncle brought us back on track with his beautiful blessing.
• We were too excited to eat, so we spent some time visiting with our guests until it was time to cut the cake.

Love Under the Moon: When I'm 64

After the speeches and blessing we dug right into dinner. We served a four course meal which I detailed for you here and here. (Oh and for all those who were following our little Momzilla saga, Team Zucchini totally won!) Like many couples, Mr. Coyote and I barely touched the food on our wedding day. It wasn't for a lack of time though - Our venue told us up front that they make it their mission serve the bride and groom first. Talk about service! The problem was, as we sat there staring at the amazing dishes laid out in front of us, we just weren't hungry. And so, we spent a majority of our dinner making the rounds and greeting our guests. Every time a new course was served our coordinator would tap us on the shoulders to let us know. We would head back to our seats, push the food around a bit and then get up and continue visiting with everyone.

By the time our main entree came (which I was really looking forward to!) I was legitimately pissed at myself. I took about three bites of the filet and nibbled on a few pieces of zucchini before I threw in the towel. It was absolutely fantastic, but I just could not fit another morsel in my stomach. I still felt all twisted up inside from nerves and excitement. Mr. Coyote felt the same exact way and repeatedly bemoaned the fact that we were wasting such a fantastic meal.

I've said it before and I'm going to say it again. Can someone PLEASE have a wedding at Franklin Plaza and invite me so I can eat their delicious, delicious food and enjoy it?!

After the plates were cleared and guests had been greeted we jumped right into our cake cutting. Ohmigosh, you guys. This cake. It may have actually been the highlight of our wedding. It was seriously the most magnificent cake I have ever seen. Huge props to Villa Italia for this beauty:

Oh and let's take a better look at that cake topper, shall we?

Now the cake cutting was a huge source of contention in the Coyote household. I was very adamant that there would be NO cake smashing on our wedding day. Mr. Coyote however, didn't quite understand the gravity of the situation and teased me relentlessly about it. I was incredibly upset by this and may have even cried once and threatened divorce. What?? There was no way I was going to have cake on my face, in my hair, down my dress, etc.

And even though I trusted Mr. Coyote not to ruin our marriage within the first two hours there was a part of me that was wary. Thankfully, he respected the sanctity of our marriage and sweetly fed the cake to me.

He was met with boos.

"Come on Mrs. Coyote, we gotta give the crowd what they want!"

"Sorry guys... She said no."

The thing is while Mr. Coyote was making pouty faces to our guests I was gearing up a forkful of frosting to smear on his face. And smear I did. Of course I wasn't going to get off that easy so Mr. Coyote played right back into it.

We shared a cake-y kiss and quickly wiped that ish off our faces.

Oh and my post title? If you haven't guessed it yet our cake cutting song was "When I'm 64" by The Beatles. Our videographer put together a great little montage of our cake cutting with our song choice playing in the background so if you have a minute, sit back, press play and enjoy all of the little nuances that photos just can't quite capture:

Video by Shaw Video Productions

I think I was originally against the cake smashing because in my head I had feared some all out cake fight. But a little bit of frosting on the nose? Totally acceptable. What's your take on cake in the face?

*All photos are by the fabulous Upstate Photographers unless otherwise noted.*

Miss a recap?

• I babble about being married and share our wedding video.
• We finish up some last-minute wedding tasks and pre-wedding jitters set in the day before the wedding.
• We practice getting married and then head to our rehearsal dinner where I shed my first tears of the weekend. We later wind down with our families back at the hotel.
• My bridesmaids get pretty and I get a special message from Mr. Coyote.
• I try to cope when things don’t go quite as planned, but thankfully I quickly bounce back and then it was time to become a bride. Meanwhile, Mr. Coyote was calm as a cucumber as he got ready with the dads and groomsmen.
• I finish getting ready and see an unexpected guest on my way to our first look.
• It was finally time to cross the street and meet my groom!
• We spend some time with our wedding party and then some time alone. Ceremony time was rapidly approaching.
• Our ceremony begins with the family and bridesmaid processional and continues with the bridal processional.
• I share the full text of our ceremony.
• We recess and my father gives us a very special wedding gift.
• Our friends and family gathered for some formal (and not so formal) portraits. Then Mr. Coyote and I spent a few moments alone before heading out to join the rest of our guests for our cocktail hour.
• The reception begins with a rockin’ introduction. Followed by our first dance and parent dances.
• Best Man M knocks us all out of the park with his speech. Our maids of honor had a little trouble with their speech, but my uncle brought us back on track with his beautiful blessing.

Love Under the Moon: Movin' Right Along

I spent way too much time worrying about Best Man M's speech when I really should have been worrying about the ladies' speech. When I asked MOH A and MOH D to be my maids of honor, I told them they were welcome to approach the speech in whatever way made them comfortable. If they each wanted to give a short speech, that was fine. If they wanted to give a speech together, that was also fine. If one wanted to give a speech and the other didn't? A-Okay! I really just wanted them to be comfortable and not feel pressured.

Because MOH A, MOH D and I all grew up together, they decided to give a combined speech. MOH D even typed it all up and noted who would say what. When we were getting ready in the morning they commented multiple times on how great their speech was and how excited they were to read it to everyone.

(MOH D on the left and MOH A on the right.)

Of course, that was before MOH A had a few too many at the cocktail hour. Granted that's what's there for, but when you know you're giving a speech don't ya think you would show a little restraint?! In MOH A's defense it was an open bar. I'd have a hard time saying no too. ;) MOH D tried her best to save the speech, but it just wasn't happening. MOH A had taken complete control. She was reading MOH D's lines instead of her own, she was making things up as she went along, it was just a general disaster! 

She came up with such gems like, "I've known Mrs. Coyote for… I dunno, a really long time" and, "Soooo yea, you guys had some rough times, but you got through them. Yea, just like you would as a married couple I guess."

At the time I was completely mortified and kept whispering in my head, "Please shut up. Please shut up. Please, please, please shut up!" Eventually they did shut up and there were some really sweet portions, but overall it was just a complete bomb.

The video is cringeworthy, but thankfully the photos look pretty cute so we're gonna stick with that. At first I thought I would never live down the fact we had such a horrible speech at our wedding, but now that it's three months behind us it's just a really funny story. Oh and not only do I constantly tease my girls about their disaster of a speech, but now I have plenty of ammo for when MOH A gets married. ;)

Thankfully, my uncle followed them with a beautiful blessing and we moved on to dinner!

"Would you all please stand and bow your heads?

For the sumptuous food and tender roast,

For the invitation from our gracious host,

For Mrs. Coyote whom Mr. Coyote loves the most,

Let us give grace to the Father, Son and the Holy Ghost.

Amen."

*All photos are by the fabulous Upstate Photographers unless otherwise noted.*

Miss a recap?

• I babble about being married and share our wedding video.
• We finish up some last-minute wedding tasks and pre-wedding jitters set in the day before the wedding.
• We practice getting married and then head to our rehearsal dinner where I shed my first tears of the weekend. We later wind down with our families back at the hotel.
• My bridesmaids get pretty and I get a special message from Mr. Coyote.
• I try to cope when things don’t go quite as planned, but thankfully I quickly bounce back and then it was time to become a bride. Meanwhile, Mr. Coyote was calm as a cucumber as he got ready with the dads and groomsmen.
• I finish getting ready and see an unexpected guest on my way to our first look.
• It was finally time to cross the street and meet my groom!
• We spend some time with our wedding party and then some time alone. Ceremony time was rapidly approaching.
• Our ceremony begins with the family and bridesmaid processional and continues with the bridal processional.
• I share the full text of our ceremony.
• We recess and my father gives us a very special wedding gift.
• Our friends and family gathered for some formal (and not so formal) portraits. Then Mr. Coyote and I spent a few moments alone before heading out to join the rest of our guests for our cocktail hour.
• The reception begins with a rockin’ introduction. Followed by our first dance and parent dances.
• Best Man M knocks us all out of the park with his speech.